{"id":2098,"date":"2025-10-06T19:11:01","date_gmt":"2025-10-07T01:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/variasvadias.com\/2025\/10\/06\/when-you-have-a-sub-serving-you\/"},"modified":"2025-10-06T19:11:01","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T01:11:01","slug":"when-you-have-a-sub-serving-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/?p=2098","title":{"rendered":"&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; When you have a sub serving you"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You are.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; responsible not for their healing but for&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; the co-creation of the safe space for the self healing <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just because they <strong>crave humiliation<\/strong> does not mean you are not responsible for the safe place for that to happen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; responsible not for their healing but for&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; the co-creation of the safe space for the self healing Just because they crave humiliation does not mean you are not responsible for the safe place for that to happen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[104],"class_list":["post-2098","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-putas-ou-vadias","tag-healing-sluts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2098","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2098"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2098\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/variasvadias.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}